In the good
old days, when I was a child…..
Get up very
early in the morning – no, not 7.30. I know that for many of you, 7.30 is very
early, but what I am talking about is 4.30 or thereabouts. Go with grandpa to
the family pond and take bath. When we reached back home, grandpa would do puja
in the prayer room which would already have been prepared by grandma who had got up still
earlier and finished her bath. After the puja I would sit in grandpa’s lap and
join in the prayers.
When we
come out of the puja room, grandpa would give me Onappudava – a new small dhoti
with golden borders (kasavu mundu as they
are called). Then grandma would call and give me a small piece of jaggery
which was part of the offering to God (naivedyam).
Jaggery is very sweet, but these small pieces were sweeter as they were
given with so much love.
By this
time the sun would be peeping out of the clouds and eastern sky would be painted
in different hues. We children (usually Achu from the servants’ home, who was
my loyal companion, would accompany me) would go out into the estate and pluck
fresh flowers. We would make a small pookkalam in the front yard and rush to
the central courtyard where my young aunts would be making intricate patterns
with rice batter. The clay ingots called mathevars, representing Trikkakkarappan,
Mahabali etc. are installed in the middle of these patterns. We knew the story
of King Mahabali through Grandma’s tales and we believed all the rituals
happening around were part of welcoming King Mahabali.
Uncles
would take 'Villu' (a bow with a flat palm base and a thin rigid bamboo
in place of string; you take another small bamboo stick and strike on the rigid
string. With the right tension on the string, one can play great rhythmic
patterns) and play rhythms on it. I had a small 'villu' of my own.
Normal
breakfast in our house was rice porridge (kanji) with ghee and pickles
or sometimes upma, idli etc. But on the festive occasions we would have
something different. For Onam days, which stretched for 12 days (hastha to
shatabhissa – aththam to chathayam in Malayalam) the main items for
breakfast used to be steamed banana (the big plantains)pieces, variety of
chips, papad etc.
We would go
out to play and would be called back for lunch. Though reluctantly leaving the
play, we would come back eagerly to partake the sumptuous traditional
Onassadya.
Ladies from
neighboring houses would come to our house after lunch and they would join my
mother and aunts in kaikottikkali. They would indulgently baby-talk to me as I
match steps with them and I would play upto it.
We will eat
more bananas and chips, go out to play again. After coming back grandpa takes
over. Bath, Puja, prayers and yes, dinner......
This was
the ONAM Recipe of my childhood.... Yummy, no?
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